Why Your Kid Shouldn’t Be on Instagram

I know, I know. You’ve heard it all before. Kids don’t belong on social media, but your kid is using it responsibly. And you’re supervising everything. So that makes it okay, right?

Wrong.

It’s not about what they may see or say online. It’s not even about the cyberbullying that is so rampant. The fact is terms of service for all social media sites — including Instagram and Facebook — specify that users must be 13 years of age to have an account.

That’s not an arbitrary number; that’s the law. COPPA makes it illegal for websites to collect personal details about any child under the age of 13. That includes your tween. For children to be on those websites, they have to change their birthdate so the system believes them to be old enough for an account.

AKA, they lie.

And allowing your children to be on social media means you’re condoning that lie. It means you’re assisting them in skirting the law. Oh, but it’s such a little thing, isn’t it? Is it? The Internet is already overrun with untruths, misinformation, and alter egos designed to mislead. Do you really want your child’s first foray into that world to start with a lie?

I don’t. I want my children to grow up knowing that the Internet is real.

It’s an extension of who we are, and the digital footprint we leave is forever. I want them to grow up in a world where people are who they say they are. I want their internet to be filled with article commenters who treat one another with respect because they know there are real people behind the comments. I want their social media to be free from bullies who make up lies to hurt others.

And that starts with being honest from the very first click.

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Heather Sokol is the married mother of many amazing, active children through birth, adoption, and foster care. They have created in her a Sports Mom, Scout Mom, Band Mom, Dance Mom, Allergy Mom & avid coupon clipper. Is that miscellaneous enough for you? She shares her deals & tips at Inexpensively.com and reports progress on learning to be a grownup at JustHeather.com. justheather tagged this post with: , Read 93 articles by
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  1. Anna says:

    I’m so glad I read this. My son is 7 and I’ve been really wanting to get him set up on Instagram to feed his creative side.He wants to take pictures and I thought it would be fun to get him started. But, I totally agree with what you’ve written here. I never thought about it this way and I appreciate this post so much. So, thank you.

  2. I 100% agree. And with that said, I think as parents we should be extremely mindful of what we, as their parents, post of them on our own personal account. Because it just doesn’t sit right to me to say “no you can’t have an account of your own – but go ahead and smile for my camera so I can post it on instagram/fb/twitter.” ya know?

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